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Women deserve to be treated right

Life & Life Issues with EMMANUEL MUKULA
THERE is nothing that I find heart-breaking as a man who refuses to love and appreciate his woman but chooses to mistreat her.
Men are supposed to love and protect their women and not to instil fear and abuse them because they are a weaker sex.
Men are supposed to be there for their women and make them feel loved and secure.
Our men ought to know that one of the most beautiful things in the world is a woman’s heart.
When a woman gives you her heart, she gives you her most prized possession that needs to be nurtured. If you love, nurture, cherish and protect it, she’ll give you the world.
If a woman sacrifices for you and still fights with you over silly things, and if she cries for you and says sorry to make up after a fight, it does not mean that she is stranded or desperate.
It means she really loves you and can do anything for you. If you have such a woman in your life, never let her go because she will always be there for you.
A good woman is not interested in your money or status.
What she wants from you is your time, loyalty, love and commitment. The unfortunate truth is that most of our men don’t seem to understand this simple fact. They have no idea how to treat a woman and make her feel special. We need to have men that love and respect their women enough to treat them right like they should.
If a woman loves you truly, never break her heart by cheating on her. It is true that a man can fulfil his physical needs with any other woman but his emotional needs can only be fulfilled by a woman who loves him with all her heart and soul. Let us learn to love and appreciate such women.
Be a gentleman and do not take a woman for granted if she is giving you attention. Just consider yourself lucky because maybe she loves you so much that she doesn’t want anyone else to take her place in your life. If she cries for you, don’t think she is weak, but consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth her precious tears.
If she is jealous of the other women around you, don’t think she is insecure, but she doesn’t want to see anyone else to be in your arms and wants her place in your life. If a woman says sorry to you even though it was not her fault, don’t think she fears losing you but she considers her relationship worth another chance and she doesn’t want anyone else to have your heart.
A real man takes time to understand his woman’s needs and does everything to treat her right. Every good woman deserves to have a man that loves her the way that she deserves to be loved; the way that she has always wanted to be loved.
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