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True success comes by overcoming

Life & Life Issues with EMMANUEL MUKULA
I HAVE come to learn that successful people approach challenges differently than most. Most people who run into challenges find it frustrating or impossible to solve them.
Successful people have a different perspective.
They are confident during these hardships and embrace them as stepping stones to a different level.
They forgo the negativity that holds most people back, and see it as a challenge to overcome and get better at it with who they are.
I believe that success is driven by a critical distinction of whether you believe that your failures come from personal deficits that are out of your control or mistakes you can fix with effort.
To have a successful mindset requires higher emotional intelligence. People often think successful people have it easy. Maintaining that mindset is definitely not easy; they are wrong. A mind can be trained, built into a habit and become better. Some people may have to work harder than others, but everyone can improve.
When I talk about association, I love to remind people that you are the average of the five people you spend most time with. If you want to be around toxic/negative people, they will take you down with them. Whether it’s negativity, cruelty, the victim syndrome, or just plain craziness, toxic people create stress and strife that should be avoided at all costs. It will truly be a struggle to reach your peak if you surround yourself with wrong people. Take a moment to look around you. The people you surround yourself with, are they bringing you down or helping you grow?
You and I know that life is not easy. You will have your ups and downs like everyone else. Everyone shares the same amount of time to do what they need to do. Successful people are serious and make their time matter. Instead of complaining about how things would have, could have, should have been, successful people find areas to appreciate, look for a better solution, fix the problem and move on. And if they really can’t solve it, they accept the consequences and move on to the next battle in life.
You need to stop seeking validation from other people. How will you ever be free and happy if you’re always seeking someone else’s approval? You’re a slave to them. You need to know how to turn that off, because they realise their self-worth comes from within. Caring for what others think of you is a waste of time and energy. Successful people know what they have accomplished and know the potential they can reach. Success, luck and positivity are driven by your mindset. Everyone has hard times, but with the right mindset, you will get out of them much easier than others.
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