Love & Life Issues with EMMANUEL MUKULA
MANY women don’t really know how to express their love to their husbands. You may be in love with your husband but do not know how to express the love.
If you want to let him know how much he means to you, then you have to know what to say to make him feel loved. Make an effort to reassure him that life would never be the same without him.
Make it a habit to tell your husband how much he is loved at least once a day. Another way to show your husband that you love him is to send him a romantic text message to show how much you care. As long as it is sincere and makes him smile, you’ll surely make him feel loved and wanted.
Be willing to see that being happy is often more important than being right and that it’s not important for you to get your way every time. It’s important to swallow your pride and to say you’re sorry when you’ve made a mistake.
Don’t create a hostile environment for him at home. Make your home a place of love, laughter, peace and joy. Pray for your husband always and let him know you are praying for him. Commit his vision, health, business, finance and relationship into the hands of God. Bless his going out and coming in. Pray for God to endow him with wisdom to be a good husband and a father.
It’s no doubt that the number one need of a man is respect. Learn to respect your husband. This is one of the greatest gifts you can give him. Whenever you begin to do this, your husband will place much value on you and your requests will always be granted. Value what he says. Take every word of your husband seriously and don’t underrate him but believe in him.
Support his vision and show interest in his passion. Most importantly, give your man undivided attention.
Appreciate and thank your husband for loving you, for paying the rent, the children’s school fees, housekeeping allowances, etc.
On your part as a wife, don’t also be stingy with your money. When you are able to, help him settle the bills.
Never take your husband for granted and make an effort to dress to attract your husband always. Every man loves a good-looking and attractive woman. Look your best and dress to impress your husband. Don’t stop making an effort to look good just because you are now married.
Your beauty can get you a husband but it cannot keep your marriage. Only godly character can make you a good wife and give you a good marriage.
Lastly, you can’t afford not to be a great cook. If you don’t know how to prepare good meals, learn from other women who cook better.
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