Lovee & Life Issues with EMMANUEL MUKULA
IT IS not debatable that men need to honour their wives.
Doing so is a life-long commitment.
Not all days are the same, but it is important to strive to meet this obligation as a man.
Men should learn to talk to their wives more than they do to anybody else.
Share your life with her as well as your hopes and dreams. Always tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her.
Even if you are exhausted after a hard day’s work, allocate time to give your wife attention. In any case, who says she also does not get tired by ensuring that she looks after the children and the home generally? Your wife needs the best of your time. Your friends and workmates should not take up your wife’s slot for attention.
The only woman you should be admiring or desiring is your wife. A woman needs reassurance that she is the only one for you. A man also needs to pass compliments for a woman to gain her confidence and realise that she is beautiful. Women love to be appreciated and your wife comes first.
When your wife is not around, you should act the same as you do when she is by your side. Would a man really flirt with another woman in the presence of his wife? A man should behave respectfully away from his wife and in her presence.
Besides your efforts to please your wife, you need to realise that challenges in a marriage will always be there, but what matters is how you handle them. When you have an argument, deal with the problem at hand. Don’t bring issues from the past.
Communication is important in a marriage, and if this is done religiously, conflicts are also easier to deal with. Always stay committed and have the willingness to sort out your problems in a mature and loving way with your wife. Fight to make up and get back on track. Don’t fight to destroy everything you have.
Lastly, your wife should have full access to every area of your life, be it Facebook, mobile phone or your email. This shows that you have nothing to hide and it builds an unbelievable level of trust with her as it also keeps you accountable. When you feel there is an issue, explain yourself and do not wait for your wife to ask you.
Give her your passwords today and take a step to full transparency. If you’re a man that loves and honours your wife, you lovingly share this with her.
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